A bucket list is one of those things that a lot of people make in life, but there are often times when we forget about the things on the list, and get overwhelmed with just getting through every day. However, a bucket list is something that can be a great way for couples to explore the world, keep that spark alive, and make a lot of memories.
Here’s an interesting fact: Bucket lists are actually quite new. In 1999, Justin Zackham made a list that he called “Justin’s list of things to do before he kicks the bucket”. Today, a lot of people have adopted this and decided to make their own.
I want to share a couple of tips with you that have helped me and bae develop what we call our couple’s romantic bucket list. Now, everyone’s unique, and what works for us might not work for you, but at least it’s a good starting point.
The Key Role Of Communication
The first thing I want to talk about is communication. Among everything I can share with you, this is probably the most important. If you and bae aren’t communicating, then you’re going to run into trouble.
Communication means you and bae need to sit down and talk. In a relationship, there are going to be indifferences, so when it comes to planning out a bucket list, you have to understand each other completely.
Comprising in a relationship becomes an incredibly important “skill”. Let’s say there’s something you want to add to the bucket list, but bae isn’t really on board. The two of you need to find a way to compromise. Maybe bae has something that you don’t really see on the bucket list. Talk it over and find things that work for the both of you – remember, you’ll be going through this list together.
What Black Couples Should Include In Their Romantic Bucket List
Now comes the fun part – what to actually include in your bucket list. This is a couple’s bucket list, so it needs to be things that you can do together. You could decide to embrace black culture through travels, or just explore the world and have fun.
A good starting point is to consider both of your hobbies, as well as the things that you enjoy doing.
Here are a couple of tips and ideas to get you started:
- Traveling together as a black couple can be a magical journey. Consider exploring the world and seeing different parts. You could decide to visit one place you’ve never been to once every year, for example. Try a few holiday spots in the Caribbean or head all the way to Africa to explore your roots.
- Maybe both of you are striving toward success – so, think of something that would really be a checkmark for success. This could be going to a really expensive restaurant together, and getting caviar served with a fine bottle of bubbles. Then, you split the bill to celebrate both of your successes.
- If the two of you are both really into things like movies, you could decide to add 100 movies you’ve always wanted to watch to the bucket list. It might sound like something simple, but it can go a long way in helping you to reach for the same goal and have fun doing so.
Last Words
These are the steps that work for me and my bae – we’ve created our romantic bucket list, and focus on ticking off things as frequently as possible. Use the tips I shared as a type of inspirational tool to help you get going with your couple’s bucket list.
